“Thank you so, so much for your talk Jem….. it was incredibly moving for me.
I was brought to tears with a kind of joy and relief that this information is now reaching the mainstream. I felt that you are an important spokesperson for this kind of self-healing. What incredible value is coming from the sharing of your journey! Please continue sharing! In all your beautiful authenticity – your message is exactly what humanity needs and you deliver it with credibility, power and humility
Golden! Keep going.”


Working with Jem has helped boost my belief in myself and my abilities, I went on the retreat with Jem and learnt so much I would highly recommend working with her both individually and during her workshops and retreat.”

I met Jem Ayres through another group we are both members of on Facebook. love Jem’s easy to understand knowledge of health wellbeing in relation to nutrition, mind, body and spirit. I went on her weekend retreat a few months ago. can honestly say The retreat was absolutely amazing and learned so much about myself in every way. She is so down to earth and wherever an individual is up to in their journey of wanting to improve their life through diet, self confidence, affirmations, mind body and spirit this retreat will help. It was a very relaxed and lovely environment to learn and I met such amazing people. Jem is an amazing inspirational lady who genuinely wants to help and teach others simples techniques to improve their life. cannot recommend going on this retreat enough and to follow her blog, her posts. She is a truly amazing woman l intend going on lots of other retreats and courses that she will be running in the future.”


I was fortunate to meet Jem shortly after learning I had stage 4 cancer, at the time I was still in shock and searching for answers but was so lost that I didn’t even know what questions to ask. 

Within a few weeks I attended one of Jem’s retreats where I learnt more in a weekend than I could ever have imagined – it was the turning point in my road to recovery.  If you get the opportunity to attend one I highly recommend them.

3 months in and I am still undergoing treatment but working with Jem has meant that my time with cancer has not been full of fear or pity but positivity, gratefulness and love!”


Jem, we are so grateful that you could fit us into your retreat. Everybody was so kind and positive. Nobody judged – it was just full of love! It really was the most amazing weekend and we came back filled with positivity and a whole new fresh outlook and belief. Thank you so much xx”

I attended the Karmony retreat without an entirely complete understanding of why it was I felt called to go. Something about what I had learned already about Jem and her journey to self healing told me she was the kind of person that I needed to spend some time around. 

That couldn’t have been more true.

During the weekend I found myself reconnecting with different routes to self love and healing that I had clearly been craving beneath the surface for some time. I was reminded how a true connection to self can radiate so strongly and guide others to do the same. Jem and her team created such a nurturing, fun and nonjudgemental environment. I learned way more than I expected and what I did pick up was so well delivered that Ive found it easy to implement back home.

It was clear that people came to that weekend for different reasons. The material was devised and delivered in such a way that it could be applied to each individuals needs…for me that was the sign of a truly holistic programme. Individuals like this don’t cross your path everyday. If a weekend retreat comes your way, whatever your current circumstances, Id be willing to bet you’d be glad you took the opportunity!”

Jem as an individual was the highlight of my stay that weekend. Reminding me how a true connection to self can radiate and affect others. Time with Jem made me feel more in tune with my true self and has inspired me massively to stay focused and work toward my goals.”


I’ve been working with Jem since mid 2017 on a regular basis. I was looking for a Tantrika willing to take a novice on a true Tantric journey. Whilst many people advertise Tantric Massage, mostly I’d found this was a cover for a quick massage and a ‘happy ending’, with little more than a nod to a true Tantric experience. Jem was different. She treated me with respect, honesty and clarity about where her and my boundaries were. We discussed in detail the work that we would do together, if I chose to work with her.

As an older guy, I was ready to leave behind the quick fix of ‘instant sex’ and instead search for a broader vision of sexuality that would provide greater pleasure and arousal, and an ability to bring this newly discovered energy to my life and enhance the way that I relate to other people. For too long, with a focus on my own business, I’ve been very concentrated in head stuff, with little room for heart opening or allowing my sexual energy to flow.In just a few months I have experienced a tremendous change in what I feel. Through breathwork, touch, massage and more, Jem has enabled me to access energy pathways and feelings I never knew I had. As trust has developed between us this has allowed me to experiment and open myself to new experiences. I can’t speak highly enough of Jem. She is gifted, honest, skilled and is a living example of how pleasure can be generated inside oneself and then shared out there in the world.

I set out on a journey without knowing what the ending was. Now I know I am on a journey that has no end. And I hope that Jem will continue to be my Tantric guide, taking me ever deeper into this wonderful world where my life can blossom fully in the knowledge that I can express who I truly am. 

If you are intrigued by what Tantra can offer, or are searching for more meaning and a deeper experience of sexuality, then I strongly recommend you meet with Jem.”

I wanted to say a huge THANK YOU for your sensitivity, your insight and your way of transferring tantra teachings to me. I feel like I’ve come a long way in a short time. I’m excited about the potential for transformation and my ability to express myself more fully including my sexuality.”

I thought I’d feedback on the bodywork session. I loved it. I remember saying on the lawn in an incoherent daze that it’s ”all about the heart.” This sounds like an appalling cliche and it can be if you aren’t speaking from concrete experience. What you did was work the lower centre with the vagra healing and then gently stimulate erotic pleasure.

Then you moved up into the heart centre, opening that so that the two were paired. What I’ve always tended to do in this state is to fixate on the lower centre arousal. The primary focus being ”getting off” and moving to ejaculation. This has always been the more compelling pathway. Thus shutting down the heart and trying to maximise the genital arousal. What I so loved about the state I was in during your session was that the heart stayed open and remained the centre of the experience. There is just no comparison between the two. And the magical thing is that while focussing on the genital shuts down and drowns out the heart experience, positioning the heart at the centre doesn’t impair the ”lower”pleasure. It enhances it.

Anyway, I had a concrete experience of this. Which allows the possibility of being able to repeat it in intimate connection. Otherwise it’s just theory and words. The next stage is to look at what shuts the heart down and blocks this state.”